Four Warning Signs You’re Suffering from “Truth Decay”

Truth Decay

Hey Leader, can you identify the truth when you see or hear it? Can you tell when someone is lying to you? Do you think that telling “little white lies” are okay to do if you do it for good reasons?

And do you believe that the truth can set you free?

Truth Decay

Winston Churchill once pointed out that people occasionally stumble over the truth, but most pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing happened.

The great American author and humorist, Mark Twain, opined that many people must regard truth as their most valuable possession since they were very economical in its use.

His advice was simply was this: “Always do right.”

Truth decay is the gradual erosion of honesty and integrity in a relationship. And if not diagnosed and treated promptly, can result in a complete loss of trust.

4 Warning Signs of Truth Decay

Here are four warning signs of truth decay and suggestions for prevention and treatment.

1. Withholding Information

WARNING SIGNS: This causes suspicion in the leader, a lack of empowerment in the followers, and wasted time and energy as people try to manage the business without all the right information at their disposal. People without information are incapable of acting responsibly. People with information are compelled to act responsibly.

PREVENTION & TREATMENT: Share information about yourself and the organization openly and in the appropriate formats and forums, and set the expectations of how the information should be used.

Trust your folks to do the right thing.

2. Not “Walking the Talk”

WARNING SIGNS: When leaders say one thing yet do another, followers quickly learn that the leader can’t be trusted. Leaders can not underestimate the power of leading by example.

PREVENTION & TREATMENTGet clear on what values are most important to you as a leader, communicate those to your team, and give them permission to hold you accountable to living those out.

3. Dropping Balls

WARNING SIGNS: Not following through on commitments is a leading contributor to truth decay.

PREVENTION & TREATMENTMake sure you under-promise and over-deliver. Don’t commit to do something unless you know you can follow-through. It can be tempting for leaders to think they have to say “yes” to everything, but if you don’t follow through on your commitments, then people begin to doubt that you are a person of your word.

As the Scripture advises us “Simply let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.” Mathew 5:37 (NIV)

4. Gossiping

WARNING SIGNS: When you engage in gossip or talk disparagingly about a colleague behind their back, you demonstrate a lack of care and respect for others. Your followers observe this behavior and begin to wonder to themselves “If my leader treats others this way, is he/she doing the same to me when I’m not around?”

PREVENTION & TREATMENTRemember, one of your most precious assets as a leader and colleague is your reputation and good name.

Creating a Culture of Candor

Leadership guru Warren Bennis has noted this:

“So much lip service is paid to the issue of business ethics; but how do you in fact build an organization distinguished by tangible integrity, moral vision, and transparency? The key is a commitment on the part of the corporate leader to establish a culture of candor in which followers feel free to speak the truth to power, and leaders are bold enough to hear such truth and act on it.”

As leaders we are responsible for setting the example of ethical behavior for our team, and if we pay attention to the warning signs of truth decay and take actions to prevent its spread, we will build a culture of high trust, engagement, and productivity.

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Randy Conley
Randy Conley is the Trust Practice Leader for The Ken Blanchard Companies
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5 Responses

  1. Randy,

    Good list. Is there any one warning sign that you believe is more important or could indicate a bigger issue with a company?

    Sandy

    • Hi Sandy. That’s a great question. I believe that “walking the talk” ranks at the top. When I ask participants in my training classes which element of trust is most important to them, the majority consistently says “integrity” – that’s what walking the talk is all about.

      Take care,

      Randy

      • I can agree with that. Walking the Talk may result in mitigating the other 3 as well.

        Thanks for the reply!

        Sandy

  2. Randy, nice twist on some important “tell tales:”.

    • Thanks for the comments Lexy!

      Randy

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