Memorial Day: Leadership at Age 21

In America, we take time each spring to celebrate the brave men and women who serve our country in the military in a holiday called Memorial Day. Formerly known as Decoration Day, it commemorates U.S. men and women who died while in the military service.

Recently, the United States Commander in Chief reminded the American public about the significance of the day:

More than just barbecues and family time, Memorial Day is the chance to honor members of the military who made the ultimate sacrifice on behalf of their country, President Barack Obama says.

Military Service

For me, Memorial Day has always been a time to celebrate along with time in somber reflection. My secret celebration has always been a selfish thankfulness for the blessing that the living soldiers provide me on a daily basis in the areas of freedom, liberty, and the rights guaranteed to me under the US Constitution.

I know who keeps freedom available to me: it is the men and women in US Military.

Both my dad Sylvester Schulte and my wife’s dad Melvin Chapman served their country in the US Army in the 1950′s in Korea and came home alive to have families, careers, and a life in “suburbia.” They didn’t die for their country on a battle field like so many others have. But I have often thought of what would be missing if either of them had died back then. I certainly wouldn’t be here to write this. Although I haven’t personally served, I have a good understanding of the sacrifice it takes.

I recently witness a small glimpse of the sacrifice made by a family who has lived across the street from my family in a cul-de-sac for the last 16 years. Close friends David and Lisa Hawkins watched their son Cpl Steven Hawkins go off to war in Afghanistan last year as a member of the US Army for a one-year assignment.

Steven is 21-years old and has been a best friend to my son Drew (also 21-years old), my other son Michael, age 20, and my twin daughters (ages 18). He has also been extremely close to me and my wife.

Steven is a man’s man with a kind heart and the ability to crush an enemy. He was built to be a servant leader and soldier.

Celebration

When Steven went off to war, he was given excellent advice, was very well-trained, and was eager to serve. Seeing a 4-year old boy grow into a 20-year old warrior and go across the planet in harm’s way was made easier by knowing of this preparation and knowing the kind of man he had become.

I have been close with him and treated him like a son. He spent much time with us over his lifetime, including in our home, at the pool, and even coming on a family vacation with us to Florida.

I even taught him how to punt a birthday cake in my front yard. He’s that kind of guy!

My wife also considers him as a special part of our family. And oh, most of the other neighbors who have lived here just as long feel the same way. Everyone loves Steven, his brother Chris (18) and their parents.

New Awareness of Death

For me in 2009, I thought about Memorial Day 2010. I wondered if the meaning of ‘fallen warrior” would forever change if I ever heard the news of Steven’s death in combat. I wondered if Memorial Day 2010 would be the first time that I would have such a personal connection with the day of remembrance for someone I loved and felt to be a son.

It was over this last year that my understanding of loss and remembrance of a fallen soldier began to take hold in my mind. I thought that I would be thinking of Steven on this day for the rest of my life. I would be thinking about his parents, his brother, my kids and wife, and all the others around that know and loved him.

I was thinking about what wouldn’t happen if he died in battle. The wife he wouldn’t get, the kids he wouldn’t have, the people he would no longer impact. It made me think about the lessons he wouldn’t be able to pass on to future generations. It made me think of the character, work ethic, sense of service, and his delightful personality that would never go on to serve others. I have thought much about what makes a man a man this last year. And what it would be like to lose a really good one. We would have lost a great young leader.

It made me realize what a great young leader this man had grown up to become before my very eyes.

Arrive Alive: A Leader Comes Home

Great News: Memorial Day 2010 arrives with Steven Hawkins safety back on US soil and sleeping in his own bed in Sugar Hill, Georgia. No more dessert sand, no more war, no more sacrifice for him and his family. Steven arrived home to become a leader for a new generation. What he learned and what he witnessed will stay with him for a lifetime.

Have you ever seen a true leader at the ripe old age of 21 years? What do they look like? What are the signs that point to someone like that? Well take a quick moment and watch this welcome home ride up Secret Cove Drive to see all the signs and celebrations that greeted Steven when he got home. You will love this video made by @tasradawson of Teen Identity!

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Articles of Faith: Is The Bible Relevant Today?

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Hours are spent each day printing newspapers, booklets, and other pieces of literature. The funny thing is, they will be out of date the very next day.

Though many short stories, poems, novels, plays, etc are endeared more with age, they still are not as enduring and relevant to our lives – as “up to date” – as God’s Word, The Bible.

Antiquated or Timeless?

Some complain about  the antiquated words found in Scripture. By doing so however, they miss to the point! The Bible does not need to be rewritten, but re-read! It is as up to date as this morning’s newspaper. We do not need to fumble around comparing translations, but wholeheartedly comparing Scripture with Scripture, as we read it more often and more intently.

Nobody can expect lost people to understand Scripture with great depth or clarity, as can those who have by grace found a place among God’s redeemed. The reason for this is found in I Corinthians 2:14. Consider:

(1 Corinthians 2:14) “But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.”  (KJV)

The natural man, or unsaved man, is not going to grasp the Word of God like one who has been regenerated by God’s Holy Spirit. The overwhelming failure to understand this truth has prompted the publication of newer versions of the Bible, in an effort to water down the language.

With that stated, God’s Word is still timeless! Even though verses are sometimes left out or misrepresented, God’s Word will endure and help those who will embrace it! This, of course, requires our own willlingness to seek and to understand, to speak and to listen.

Whose Wisdom Is It?

I say the Bible is more relevant today than ever before! Or at least it is more necessary, to remind ourselves of enduring wisdom. It certainly is the best place I have found to help understand lessons on leadership.

Human wisdom is being proven highly fallible, while the Bible as infallible. The most liberal men and women have long tried to disprove Bible events and portray them as myth. But with each year that passes by, they are indeed proven wrong.

Any person who is born again by God’s Spirit, can take the Bible and live by it – of course by the power of the Spirit, not by our own. Its precepts do not change from year to year, as the FDA, medical journals, and major think tanks’ recommendations do. For example, according to the ever-changing “wisdom” of our day, milk is good for you today, but tomorrow it can kill you!

God’s Word is not like that! It is immutable.

(2 Timothy 3:16-17) “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.”  (KJV)

(Hebrews 4:12-13) “For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. Neither is there any creature that is not manifest in his sight: but all things are naked and opened unto the eyes of him with whom we have to do.”  (KJV)

(1 Peter 1:23) “Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.”  (KJV)

(2 Peter 1:20-21) “Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation. For the prophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy Ghost.”  (KJV)

As for Me and Mine

The Bible, for the true Christian, is the sole basis of their faith and practice. In a world of relativism, this makes Bible believers look weird in the eyes of most other people. That’s okay with me! I will go with God and His Word any day!

If more of God’s people would practice what God’s Word says, then we would not have as many folks thinking the Bible is not relevant for our generation.

We can all do better at this – yes, including me. It is our own incongruency with the Word, not the Word itself, which distances people from God rather than inspiring and attracting them. Let us do better at practicing what we preach!

What is one of the challenges you face daily, in attempting to live by the Word? What impact do you feel this may have on others? On your own joy and peace? On your personal life or professional success? What is one thing you can begin doing today, to more effectively immitate Jesus and God’s Word?

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Leadership on the Run

I consider myself to be an amateur runner, albeit you will never see an Olympic medal hanging around my neck.  Usain Bolt has nothing to worry about.  Running for me is about more than the torture it brings to my body.  It is about going where the road takes me, very often into unknown territory.

My running buddy and I rarely go to the same park or trail on consecutive runs.  We love to find a trail and just take off, usually without even checking the trail map to see where it goes.  I must confess that, on more than one occasion, this has turned out to be a less-than-brilliant idea.  We have gotten lost, gone farther than we anticipated, and been caught in hopeless circles. So many times, organizations and their leadership teams resemble my haphazard running strategy.

How many times have you seen organizations, both for-profit and nonprofit, running at full speed with all the vigor they can muster but have no idea where they are headed?

Running Blind

The problem with running without a map is that we cannot know when we have achieved our goal and when to celebrate the victory.  In his book, Seven Practices of Effective Ministry, pastor and author Andy Stanley reminds the reader that it is critical for any organization to take the time to celebrate the win.

But, how do we know if we have scored a run, made a goal, scored a touchdown, or  made a basket? How do we know if we have crossed the finish line at all, much less know if we made our personal best time? Strategic leadership begins with the end in mind.

Leadership requires vision beyond what you can see at the start.

Running with Vision

One of my favorite runs here in the Atlanta area is the US 10 K Classic, run every Labor Day.  Besides being quite hilly, it is 6.2 miles straight down one major road.  You start at Point A and run to the finish line at Point B.  Now, unless you have supernatural vision, you cannot see the finish from the start, so you just start running with the hopes that someone has gone before you and marked the finish line. But who is “that someone?” Who does every follower rely upon to make it to a known ending point?

That someone is the strategic leader with a vision.

You, as the leader that you are destined to be must go ahead of the group, lay out the path, see the finish line, and clearly mark the way for the rest of the team to follow.  Then, and only then, can individual team members recognize the end of their toils and labors and can celebrate the victory of a job well done.

Moving Targets

Personally, I’ve been in too many organizations where a finish line is established or a score is identified, only to have the target move in the middle of the process.  Imagine if, after a race has begun, the race organizer decided to move the finish line out another mile.

How unimaginable would  that be?

Yet, in business, that very thing happens almost daily.

  • Production quotas change
  • Job performance evaluations change
  • Job descriptions change
  • Company strategies change

No wonder so many people are burned out and frustrated.  If we want to see employee engagement soar, help your team to see the finish line through your vision, lead them to that line, and celebrate the win.

Final Thoughts

My running partner often reminds me of an informal slogan from the U.S. Marines.  When I start lagging behind, my partner will slow down with me.

He simply says, ”No Marine left behind.”

We start the run together and we finish the run together.  Usually, this will be the incentive I need to press on and to pick up my pace.  Great leaders will set the pace but will adjust that pace as necessary to not leave anyone behind.

A team that runs together celebrates together.

Whether your leadership assignment looks like a one-mile fun run or a full marathon, set your mind on the finish line, rally your team to run alongside you, and run with everything you have in you.  And, oh, don’t forget to enjoy the journey along the way.

How are you doing at setting the vision, the journey, and the pace for your team. How are you handling the bumps, twists, turns, curves, detours, and changes that happen along the way? What are you doing to check your performance as you take others on a journey toward something greater than themselves? I would love to hear your thought!

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Are You Managing Your World, or Does It Manage You?

For all of us in leadership roles, we need to pause from time to time to make some key assessments.

We need to think about ourself, our job, our commitments, our families, our health, our spirits, our energy and many more things that make us who we are. Then we need to consider how all of that impacts our lives. Then consider how it impacts the lives of those around us. This reflective exercise is a sobering and cleansing process. This introspection can really be a spring cleaning for our minds, bodies, and souls.

I like to call it recalibration.

Let’s face it, the demands on your time and your life can get overwhelming. In today’s tumultuous market, we really never know from day to day what may come next. If we let the pressure of these demands mount without routinely asking ourselves some basic questions, we run the risk of spinning off into some other orbit we never intended.

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I like the old adage of the frog in the kettle. The story goes, that if you drop a frog in boiling water, he immediately jumps out. But if you set him in cool water and slowly add heat until it comes to a rapid boil over time, you will get frog soup; he will boil to death. I don’t know about you, but I certainly don’t want to be like the frog who doesn’t sense the perils in life creeping up on me before it is too late without my noticing!

React or Respond?

I suggest that one of the most essential questions we can ask ourselves is this:

Am I managing my world, or is my world managing me?

At the core of this idea is the challenge between being proactive or reactive. here is an illustration to make my point:If a doctor prescribes medication and my body reacts when I take it, it is a problem. Yet if my body responds to the medication, I am going to get over or through the condition.

Just like with the medicine,

Being reactive to things in our world – circumstances or stimuli – really will not help the situation.

Of course, there are things that may happen that are totally unexpected. Yes, we have to deal with that. But we can do it powerfully. My point is that we should not let everything that happens become a point of reaction. In reality, we have the capability to do something – to be proactive with what may come.

Proactive people are better positioned to be managing their world, whereas living reactively allows the events of the day to manage YOU.

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Intruder Alert!

You may think you have developed the best plan in the world to attack the next chapter of your life. (Ok, maybe just the next few hours). Then, before you know it, the very first person who walks into the office seems to blow the whole plan out of the water.

What do you do? Don’t react! Allow, no, force yourself to pause and process the matter according to your plan. This is how you manage things rather than let things manage you.

Is it easy? Of course not! That’s why we so often feel overwhelmed or drained at the end of the day. Even if you are successful at maintaining focus on your plan, it likely will take substantial energy and effort.

The good news is, those people who have been able to adopt a discipline for doing this find it becomes easier to do with practice and momentum over time.

And this has an impact on others as well. If your outward aura is true to this inner control, the people around you will start to get the picture. Their demands will become less intrusive, and they will eventually learn they cannot get “the rise” out you they once might have achieved.

Life is a Self-Help Journey

Maybe the self-help books are not as popular as they once were. The truth is,this journey we call life is full of self-help moments. Rather than waiting on others to pitch in or hoping that circumstances may change, we need to take control of our own destiny.

At each and every step of the way, ask yourself,

Am I managing my world, or does my world manage me?”

Where do you stand? Are you more inclined to be in control of the things happening around you, or have you just been reacting? How would you describe the leadership at your organization? How can you introduce more ways of being proactive rather than just reactive? I would love to hear your thoughts!

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Doug Thorpe is Executive Director of Jobs Ministry Southwest
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Mentoring: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Do you have a mentor? Or are you actively serving as a mentor for someone else?

As leaders, this is often an informal role we naturally take on. As business professionals, it can also be a very structured and formal career development program.

The Good…

A mentor can be a most positive influence in one’s developing career.  Sharing the wisdom of experience, helping to expand networks, providing direction along a career or education path; these are all common functions of a mentor.  In The Mentor’s Spirit, Marsha Sinetar wrote,

A mentor is a person, guide or a teacher – a keeper of selective wisdoms that we hope to gain.

Sinetar went on to describe virtue as “a mentor’s most powerful tool.” Virtue is revealed in the integrity that mentors bring to the mentoring relationship.  This, in turn, opens the door for trust.

Trust establishes the safe environment in which honest self-reflection can take place.  Only then can growth occur.

The Bad…

When the mentoring relationship does not work out, it can negatively affect on both the mentor and the protege.  This may depend on the circumstances surrounding the “break-up.”  On May 24, The Wall Street Journal (WSJ) published an article titled, When Mentoring Goes Bad, written by Dawn E. Chandler and Lilian Eby.

There are some fairly ordinary reasons for mentoring relationships to detour from the original path, or even end altogether.  A personal life event such as a major health challenge can certanly have an impact.  A job change or move can force a major change or an ending.  Sometimes, the two people simply find that, after giving it a go, their personalities or values don’t quite mesh.  An amicable end can be agreed to and both parties move on.

Ideally though, mentors and proteges are carefully matched for personality, skills, goals, and communciation styles.

The Ugly…

Sometimes, however, mentoring relationships can go very, very wrong.  The WSJ article identifies several ways this can happen. Among them are:

Neglect of Proteges

A mentor who is not committed and actively participating in the protege’s growth – perhaps due to their own career distractions – can have long lasting, damaging results.  A protege may suffer from a bruised ego and abandonment. They may refuse to seek help later on, and may end up leaving the organization in disappointment over promises unfulfilled.

Mentors who Manipulate

The article describes this challenge as most common when the mentor and protege are in the same reporting tree.  A mentor without the purest motivation may succumb to manipulation tactics such as inappropriate delegation of work, politicking, or even tyranny.

Proteges who Manipulate or Sabotage

Although the protege is more often not in the “power” position, they can certainly cause damage to the mentor’s reputation.  In a quest for power, or perhaps as revenge for being passed over for a promotion, untruths or other actions can be initiated by a dissatisfied protege.

On the other hand…

Positive leadership behaviors can make all the difference.

The WSJ article goes on to describe how mentoring relationships work the best.  There must be a structure and plan around it.

  • Establish a goal
  • Develop an action plan
  • Build in progress checkpoints

Additionally, it is always a good idea to share and set expectations of both parties, and to periodically review these. A discussion of expectations might include an orientation program to clearly understand their respective roles. The presence of integrity and the development of trust is also key.  Lastly, some advance discussion of how the relationship will end helps to make that future process smoother for all involved.

Do you have mentoring lessons learned that you can share? What worked?  What didn’t?  What are your experiences?

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The Checkbook and the Calendar

Several years ago, during the dot com boom, I worked for an internet startup company. During the company’s prime there was a desire to have the Account Managers understand what it takes to be a good Project Manager (PM). There was lots of talk about doing training to develop these PM skills.

Despite the talk, there was never the time or the budget to get the Account Managers trained.

After one particularly disastrous software implementation, the Account Manager admitted that he made promises about dates that were completely unrealistic, but he was hopeful the team would be able to “pick up the slack.” Even after this situation, there continued to be lots of talk, but very little action. Sadly, this startup company didn’t actually start-up (are you surprised?) Today, I affectionately refer to it as “goingdownthetubes.com.”

Is It Really Important?

This scenario is not reserved for young, startup companies; nor is it reserved for inexperienced staff. It highlights what happens in the most elite of organizations and in your personal life on a daily basis.

It highlights the foolishness of hoping for one outcome while demonstrating behaviors that do little to ensure it will happen.

The result is frustration, counter productivity, and unintended consequences. And it is something that we can all relate to.

The Checkbook and the Calendar

This scenario highlights a truth called the Checkbook and the Calendar. I learned this model from a good friend and leadership coach, Croft Edwards. The Checkbook and the Calendar model is a simple and effective way to do two things. First, it is a way to validate what is really important to you. Second, it is a way to see what is really important to those around you (staff, peers, or superiors).

Here is how it works

If you want to know what is truly important to someone, all you have to do is look at their checkbook and their calendar. People spend their time on those things that are important to them. Conversely, the things that people spend time on show what is really important to them. Similarly, people will invest (spend their money) in those things that are important to them and the things they invest in are what is really valuable. This is true whether it be a conscious or subconscious decision.

It is a cruel and brutally honest reflection of what is important to you. It is universally true and accurate. You can’t deny it.

Let me give you two examples to which most of you will be able to relate. Thinking of my college days, no matter how “broke” my buddies and I were, when the weekend came around we were somehow always able to come up with enough money for beer. It was fine if that meant we had to eat Raman noodles for a month. What was important was getting the beer.

You could see that by where our money went.

Another example is a bit more current. I know that it is good for my overall health to exercise at least 4 times per week. My doctor has even confirmed that this is an important thing for me to do. Despite the validation from a medical professional and the logical argument purporting the benefits of this activity, it is relatively easy to see if I concur with the importance of acting on this. Just look at my calendar. How many days in a week do I set aside an hour to exercise at some point in the day?

If it is really important you will see it on the calendar.

If you still have doubts about the truth of the Checkbook and the Calendar, then think about yourself. What’s happening with that unfinished project in your garage or the box of pictures that you are going to scrapbook when you got a chance? How much did you spend on that leadership development class you were looking at?

The beauty of the Checkbook and the Calendar model is in its simplicity.

  • It always tells the truth.
  • You can use it to look at yourself.
  • You can use it to look at others.
  • And others can use it to see what’s important to you.

The Checkbook and the Calendar model is a way to prove something that Stephen Covey says,

“You can’t talk your way out of something that you behave your way into.”

So, what is really important to you?

Do you pay lip service to developing the leadership skills of your staff or even yourself? Where are you demonstrating that on your calendar and with your checkbook?

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The Power Struggle: Part Two

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“The greater the power, the more dangerous the abuse.” -Edmund Burke

A Wicked Garden

In the late 1990s, Jack Grubman had wide-ranging power. A preeminent Wall Street analyst at Salomon Smith Barney, Grubman’s buy ratings and optimistic research helped push telecom stock prices to stratospheric heights. His annual salary was nearly $20 million.

But despite Grubman’s professional power, he lacked the clout necessary to get his twin daughters into an exclusive New York City preschool called the 92nd Street Y. Fortunately for Grubman, he held influence over people who were even more powerful than he was.

At the time, Salomon Smith Barney was a subsidiary of Citigroup and, as it turns out, Grubman had the power to fix a nagging problem for the banking giant’s top executive. Sandy Weill, Citigroup’s board chair and co-CEO, was in a power struggle with his counterpart, co-CEO John Reed. Legend has it that Weill had solicited help from board member C. Michael Armstrong in ousting Reed and installing Weill as the only CEO.

In addition to sitting on Citigroup’s board, Armstrong was also the CEO of AT&T. For years, Grubman had maintained a neutral rating on AT&T and repeatedly disparaged the company in his analysis and public comments. Armstrong complained to Weill that Grubman’s behavior was affecting AT&T’s stock price and, presumably, his willingness to help him force out Reed. So Weill asked Grubman to “take a fresh look” at AT&T, and on November 29, 1999, Grubman upgraded his opinion on the company from neutral to buy, a double upgrade in the Salomon Smith Barney rating system. As you might have guessed, Citigroup’s board removed Reed three months later.

Subsequently, Weill called a member of the 92nd Street Y’s board of directors and greased the wheels for Grubman’s kids. After the school admitted the Grubman twins, Weill arranged a $1 million donation to the Y from the Citigroup Foundation.

But the deal making didn’t stop there. In the wake of Grubman’s upgrade of its stock, AT&T selected Salomon Smith Barney as a lead underwriter in its Wireless IPO. It was the largest equity offering ever made in the United States, and Salomon Smith Barney earned $63 million in underwriting fees.

Today, the once mighty Grubman is powerless. For his role in this elaborate scheme, Grubman earned a $15 million fine, and the securities industry barred him for life. Although Weill acknowledged intervening to help Grubman’s twins get into preschool, he disavowed any connection with either their acceptance by the Y or the million-dollar donation.

Power Abusers

While the Citigroup example is extreme, it demonstrates how some leaders abuse their power. Grubman, Weill, and Armstrong abused theirs for personal gain. But power is misused in many other ways.

  • Every day, corporate bureaucrats use their power to create rules for employees that foster conformity and deference.
  • People in positions of power withhold resources—human and otherwise—that workers need for accomplishing their day-to-day work.
  • Micro-managers project their low personal self-esteem onto their employees and, as a result, treat everyone as untrustworthy.
  • Highly negative managers bully workers with name-calling, humiliation, or mental and physical abuse.
  • Bosses use their positional power to sexually harass their employees.

All these authoritarians believe their positional power confers instant respect.

In other words, too many people with authority confuse the concepts of power and leadership.

What’s Going On Here?

Why is misuse of power so prevalent? Certainly, personality is a large factor. History’s most notorious leaders, monsters likes Hitler, Stalin, and Pol Pot, had dark and shadowy personalities. Positional power provides immoral people with the opportunity to leverage their influence for unethical—indeed evil—purposes.

Another reason why power abuse prevails is that many leaders believe that employees intrinsically find work distasteful and will deliberately avoid it whenever possible—a premise that Douglas McGregor labeled Theory X. These leaders believe that people are inherently lazy and will only work when threatened. Accordingly, they use their positional power to coerce employees to perform.

Along those lines, powerful people often hold destructive stereotypes toward others. When they view subordinates as inferior and incapable, these leaders feel justified in mistreating workers or using them as the means to an end.

Finally, powerful people are often in positions that enable them to protect their power. They attack anyone who challenges their power and, as a result, few people confront them.

As I mentioned in the first installment of this three-part series, power is not innately bad. In fact, when you hold true power—the kind that results from possessing leadership integrity—you can harness it for greatness. And that’s what I’ll discuss next time.

Epilogue

In a quirk of fate, Grubman and his co-conspirators can thank another power abuser for uncovering their ploy: former New York governor Eliot Spitzer, who was the state’s attorney general at the time. Spitzer earned the nickname “Sheriff of Wall Street” by prosecuting countless corrupt corporate titans.

In case you forgot, he resigned amid allegations of his involvement with a high-priced prostitute.

Leadership Power Struggle: Part One | Part Two | Part Three

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George Brymer is the creator of The Leading from the Heart Workshop®
He delivers Leadership Workshops that help leaders at all levels evolve

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